Did Aaron a favour to post views for his lastest blog entry. Love for us realli is a tricky topic loh..some ppl wan it but do nt haf it but some ppl dun wan it but still haf a few relationship before or gt ppl to woo he/she. there is no 'formula' for any long-lasting relationship but smtink both parties need to haf is trust bah...

I put trust between both parties veri impt coz it is the veri basic factor u need to understand each other. even a normal friendship need trust frm each side..and thy will nv be a gd relation between the two if trust is nt in place. If both parties haf trust in their partner, many unnessccsary querral will be prevented. they will nt be so suspicsion of wad thy partner is doin all the times. Unless, it is ur partner tt betray u lah...e.g. lyk one leg step two boats.

By having trust in each other, thy oso haf a breathing space fer each other. Cannt always be so close to each other de wad...will die bcoz lack of oxygen. Mayb sound abit lyk jking but the truth is love will die if there is no breathing space or freedom between each other but it oso will die off if there is too much space between two person. i noe guys smtym love a gal too much and treat it as his own property liao. but she oso a human wad...and all human need their own freedom and privacy. lyk wad u all wan frm ur parents which it will enable u to do more tink tt u lyk or desires.

The last part sound abit lyk me..lyk smone but do not or don dare to confess coz the fear of rejection..but tis part is nt a prob to many ppl nwadae as ppl getting bolder and bolder. But for ppl lyk me who more introvent, the fear of rejection is only a primary factor..there are more to it frm being rejected. The other factors which make us low-esteem is e.g. looks, family background, money, competation frm other competeters and others bah bah bah...all this make ppl lyk me more restrict to ourself and in e end miss the chance and left regret in our heart. Stupid devil !!! make so many tinks fer us to scare fer wad...-.-"

but seriously if loving someone bcome so hurtful...i rather spend time wif my frens where i can find fun and laugers. Why spent a dae wif sad n sorrow where it can be happy and joyful. Love take two parties to go into commitment and nt oni a one-side commitment. Why force it?? if it nt ur, it's nt ur..even if u force it there will nt b a happy ending. It will come to u one dae as God's promise..all u need to do is jus wait. Don need to waste time on those silly relationship and in e end both parties or one parties get hurt. Just lyk me..who always wan a relationship but dun haf one..but smtym dun haf is oso a gd tink. Coz it will be fruithful in ur memories if u wait till ur other part and it a right one.

My mood seem down abit aft writing tis blog...haizz!!! but tis is my view on love ah...sound abit too factual and too imaginive but tis wad i tink bah. hope a no exp guys can clear some doubt here bah !!!